This becomes especially taxing if a South Asian couple chooses to marry stateside. "In America, you only try for weekend weddings, but it's not like you just pick a Saturday and make sure the Plaza is available," says Shah.
Multiple Days of Events
Most people prefer to incorporate natural light and will opt for an outdoor ceremony, but ballrooms that support open flame (more on that later) are also an option.
Lots of Red
Red is considered auspicious and, not surprisingly, it is the most prominent color at Indian weddings—usually with gold accents.
A Huge Guest List
"That's just how it is. We invite everyone. That's why these weddings turn out so huge!"
Outfit Changes
"The groom gets to do as many outfit changes as the bride, which is pretty cool"
A Grand Entrance for the Groom
The groom gets his own processional, or baraat,and talk about an entrance.
Saptapadi (Seven Steps)
"These represent the first seven steps you take together as husband and wife,"
No Kiss (Probably)
Finally, the newlyweds recess back down the aisle, conventionally sprinkled with red rose petals.
A Big Party
Everyone invited to the wedding is usually invited to the reception.
Plenty of Food
Yes, it’s often Indian, but that doesn't always mean vegetarian or spicy.
Serious Dancing
Wedding party members or guests may serenade the newlyweds with Bollywood-style dances.
Pranks Played on the Groom
Keep your eyes on the bridesmaids and the bride’s side of the family during the reception, and you might see some grade-A mischief.